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Chapter Six
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Fortunately, he did not die.
C said she hated a man. He was her colleague, and he had a girlfriend of six years. He had said he would break up with her, but he hadn't. He had been deceiving her all along. He said he was going on a trip alone, but he was secretly going with his girlfriend. During the trip, he even called to tell her he loved her. He promised to marry her. But in reality, he had already bought a house and was preparing to marry his girlfriend. He had recently gotten a promotion; he was so happy, while she endured only suffering.
She said she wanted revenge; she had never hated anyone except him. She wanted him dead.
When a man deliberately deceives us, we all wish he were dead. If he were dead, we wouldn't even shed a tear. He deserves to die. Only his death could vent our anger. However, one day, you'll be thankful he's still alive. If he were dead, how could you see yourself happy and content?
The best revenge is not to destroy the other person or yourself, but to be happier and more joyful than them. Watching you improve, surpass them, and be happier than them might be more painful for them than death. It's better to let them suffer than to kill them.
His death will do you no good. If he lives, you'll be more careful and less easily fooled by men. Meeting a bad man isn't necessarily a bad thing. How can you appreciate a good man if you've never met one? Besides, such a wicked person isn't worth your time seeking revenge. Cursing him to die only lowers your standards. Letting him go is letting yourself go. How long will it take you to calm down?
Men will never understand a woman's safe period. Women, on the other hand, will never understand a man's cooling-off period.
The man said, "I need to be alone for a while." Does this mean he wants to break up? He didn't say break up, only that he needs time to cool off. So, how long does he need to cool off?
"I'll call you," is what men usually say, rather than telling women directly how long they need to cool off.
The woman went home and waited for her husband's message. For her, this cooling-off period was long and painful. She knew that if her husband suddenly wanted to be alone, it meant he no longer loved her, he wanted to break up, but he just couldn't bring himself to say it. So he needed some time.
The so-called cooling-off period is basically one party waiting for the other to declare the relationship dead. Very few couples can survive the cooling-off period, and those who get back together afterward are just prolonging the relationship; they'll break up again soon.
"Calming down" is practically synonymous with "breaking up." Anyone who's been in a few relationships isn't stupid enough to not understand what "calming down" means. Even though we understand, it's still hard to accept our partner suddenly saying, "Can we calm down?" No matter how many times we've heard similar things, we still hope this time will be different, that this "calming down" will have a good outcome. No matter how many lessons we've learned, we still don't understand how long a man needs to "calm down." We still keep asking, "Why do you need to calm down? How long do you want to calm down?" A woman's privilege.
When a man goes back to his ex-girlfriend, she often misunderstands, thinking he still loves her and still thinks she was the best. He wants to be with her again. He feels he wronged her in the past, or perhaps he's been feeling down lately.
Women don't believe their ex-boyfriends contact them just to see them, with no ulterior motives. Men don't have the privilege of contacting their ex-girlfriends whenever they want. But I think women do have that privilege. We have the privilege of contacting our ex-boyfriends whenever we want.
I don't still love him. I don't think he's the best. I don't want to be with him again. And I certainly don't feel I wronged him before. Maybe it's just that I've been feeling down lately.
I had a fight with my current boyfriend, and the first thing that came to mind was my ex-boyfriend. I just want to find a man I used to have feelings for to sit next to me; it doesn't mean I still love him.
I just broke up with my current boyfriend, and the thought of my ex immediately came to mind. I just want a man to care about me. I don't want to go back to him. Absolutely not.
I haven't been in a relationship in a long time, and I'm feeling lonely tonight. I opened my notepad and saw my ex-boyfriend's name, which reminded me of him. So I called him and we chatted. At that moment, I just wanted to confide in someone who was once very close to me. What I miss isn't the past relationship or the ex-lover, but rather the person I used to be.
Please let me believe that women have this privilege. Erase the old record.
When a woman says she's had a romantic relationship with someone, it might not be true. Similarly, when a woman says she hasn't had a romantic relationship with someone, it might not be true either.
Some women love to make up stories. Even when someone has never dated them, they insist that the person is interested in them. They claim the two of them had a flirtatious relationship for a while.
When a woman says she's never been in a relationship with a certain person, it might be because that relationship is over and she doesn't want to admit she was ever with him. Perhaps she thinks that man was terrible and unworthy of her. Or maybe she doesn't want her boyfriend to know she was ever with such a man.
The only way to remove a man she deems unworthy of her from her romantic history is to deny him.
She denied it because she had never loved him deeply.
She denied it because he had never loved her deeply and he hadn't treated her well.
She denied it because their story wasn't beautiful.
She denied it because her current man is much, much better than him.
She denied it because she wanted to find a man who was many, many times better than him. So she had to erase her dishonorable past.
She denied it because her taste has become much more sophisticated now.
If a woman denies ever having dated you, besides accusing her of lying, shouldn't you also reflect on your own behavior? (The poor gambler)
The girl wrote that she met her current boyfriend last year, and they have a great relationship, considering each other their life partners. He just found a job in the United States, and he really wants her to come with him. However, that would mean she would have to leave her family and job in Hong Kong. She can't find a job there, and she can't even go to school because he...
She'll be moving to a different work location every six months. If she goes with him, all she can do is stay home to take care of him and rebuild her social circle, which means she'll have to depend on him. She's conflicted and doesn't know if she should go with him.
If she doesn't go with him, she might regret it for the rest of her life. But if she does go with him, who can guarantee that her feelings won't change? If she leaves her family, gives up her job, and abandons her future to follow him, she'll feel she's sacrificed too much for this relationship. She'll therefore have high expectations of him, and if he treats her even slightly badly in the future, she'll hate him. She'll feel her sacrifices were worthless. Living together in a foreign land, two people will inevitably face many life problems. If they also have to face a relationship filled with pressure, they'll only end up resenting each other.
Making choices in love is sometimes like gambling; you might win, or you might lose everything. When deciding whether to go or not, you shouldn't consider whether you'll regret it later, or whether he'll love you forever. Because you simply can't know the answer. The most important thing is whether you love him, whether you love him enough to be willing to take this gamble, even if you're a poor gambler. I'll call you.
If I had a choice, I would prefer that I say to the other person, "I'll call you," instead of them saying it.
The person who says "I'll call you" always holds the upper hand. They can contact you or not. They can contact you whenever they want, and you can only obediently wait for them, letting them control you.
Why should he be the one to say "I'll call you"? Because you love him more and care about him more? Because he's not free and it's inconvenient for him to answer your calls anytime?
The man said, "I'll call you." At that moment, you really wanted to ask, "When will you call me?" But that would seem like you cared, so you just smiled and nodded, not pressing the matter further.
When breaking up, the man said, "I'll call you." At that moment, you disregarded your pride and humbly asked him, "When will you call me?" He didn't give you a specific date, only saying, "I'll contact you." After he left, he never called again. He won't contact you again. The one who says goodbye first can say with style:
I'll call you.
The one left behind can only sit alone by the telephone, waiting and waiting. If you had a choice, you would rather be the one saying, "I will call you."
What do you like about me?
When people are deeply in love, they ask their partners:
What do you like about me?
The lover replied:
I like your innocence, I like your dreams, I like your unwillingness to compromise, I like your willfulness and capriciousness, and I also like your intelligence.
Later, her lover stopped loving her. When they broke up, she tearfully asked him: